Monday, January 13, 2014
Wednesday, November 27, 2013
The Next Time... you feel like GOD cannot use you just remember.
Noah was a drunk
Abraham was too old
Isaac was a daydreamer
Jacob was a liar
Leah was ugly
Joseph was abused
Moses had a stuttering problem
Gideon was afraid
Sampson had long hair and a womanizer
Rahab was a prostitute
Jeremiah and Timothy were too young
David had an affair and was a murderer
Elijah was suicidal
Isiah preached naked
Jonah ran from God
Naomi was a widow
Job went bankrupt
John the Baptist ate bugs
Peter denied Christ
The Disciples fell asleep while praying
Martha worried about everything
The Samaritan woman was divorced, more than once
Paul was too religious
Timothy had an ulcer ... AND
Lazarus was dead!
So you would be the messenger not the message.
Just sharing notes from a ministry training group.
Happy Thanksgiving! No this is not my poem...
Writer unknown...After all it is a summation of
what is written.
Labels: God, Love, motives, reality, supernatural things
Monday, March 4, 2013
Honestly...Will People Change?
Honestly, the wicked come in many forms, in wolf form too. You must be wise to survive a wolf, because they are in sheep's clothing and know the Word of God better than the average sheep. For me I have always been an underachieving sheep. Quietly making a way through a maze of rhetoric and evil. It is wonderful to say that God, always has my back, because He always has my heart. Although we try to make room for others in our hearts sometimes a great lack of understanding rises. Especially when the realization strikes them; knowing that no matter how close and how hard a person tries and struggles, that person can only be second in your life, maybe they can achieve side by side where you have our Dearheart. But, a dearheart cannot be a head over Him. This policy was written before time itself and will never change for anyone.
As we attempt to blend into this world we will always stand out. Each of us is an outstanding, stunning, extraordinary achiever in all of our own areas. Regardless of how life appears or how our lives appears to others we cannot know how Dearheart may work at all times. Wish we could but, we cannot know these matters. Some will see how He works in a life, although he may not always work the same way every time. As I sit here typing, I know that I am getting ready for another shock of a lifetime. Just that feeling is with me and has been for several days. Being prepared spiritually is a must because we never know exactly what is coming and how evil may manifest itself. All you can do is stand on the promises and hope and pray for the absolution from God who is always on His spot through our Advocate.
Quietly, I await a second chance in my own life for a happy resolve. Unknowing if that is His will or not? Of course, I should know His opinions on most circumstances in life and I do. But, there are always meddlers who believe they know better than God. Some do not even believe in God but they have control issues of their own to deal with. Many give lip service to God and have a blanket judgments of how everything should be! Me, I do not hear so well, my opinion is let God be God, extend mercy if you can and let His grace do the rest. Being a selfish person myself I never felt God's grace to be sufficient for me. Deliberately I live in the hustle and bustle of cities and dwell where there are frequently masses of people, knowing many can hear much better than me!
Many will say there is not a compromise, no mercy, no forgiveness, a very stiff-necked crew. Does it matter who says the words? As long as they are said, can it mean that you are as committed as an agreement can allow in this day and age?
Having lived in God's mercy many years of my life such as it is...I have always found forgiveness and have forgiven others no matter what? You will find that others will try to remind you of what you have forgiven and will have an entire story about a matter that is not even the truth. Regardless deeply inside you will know what was true, and you know not to get drawn into a situation you know you cannot handle anymore. Sorry to inform you, we just age. Age to the point of accepting our limitations; knowing we cannot control other peoples lives, no matter what the general consensus's might be. That is where we should be. If we work on ourselves, there is no time to raise and stir mess that is usually not our place. Lies are just that politics are just the aforementioned. You cannot plan a life around that life. Too many changes all things are temporary and temporal.
An age old standby is to change what you know you can make better. With cooperation many situations can get so much better, you cannot change some else's opinion on matters they believe they are expert in. Regardless of all individual circumstances are just that individual stances. You however are not allowed to vent safely even to your own best friend, but they can vent and of course you will forgive and forget. Extended families are just that, family friends are just that. They are not to be in your immediate family business, should they run around and make sure everyone's history lines up with whom they believe you belong with or without. This part of life is between the immediately few and God. (Unless there is life threatening evidence of abuse, murder, disappearances. Share with only that potential victim and the potentially harmful person together! Honesty!) Not an entire gossip throw it all out there kind of way. If you can't hold water then step down, get out of the way. God will put someone there who can hold water.
Lastly, people do change drastically over time. God forgives all, should we all try? Honestly one out of three people have some issue diagnosed, just imagine how many others do not and are not labeled. It is just that simple, because you yourself are not completely normal. Some people are a recovering this or recovering that: some people never even think they are in need of recovering from anything. Life is perfect, one day at a time, by the way good luck with that. I know, one is a very lonely number, unless you have Him, but for some of us that is still unacceptable because people all know ourselves, and people yearn for those people seemingly that people can never have. After all there is free will. All people can change by will.
As we attempt to blend into this world we will always stand out. Each of us is an outstanding, stunning, extraordinary achiever in all of our own areas. Regardless of how life appears or how our lives appears to others we cannot know how Dearheart may work at all times. Wish we could but, we cannot know these matters. Some will see how He works in a life, although he may not always work the same way every time. As I sit here typing, I know that I am getting ready for another shock of a lifetime. Just that feeling is with me and has been for several days. Being prepared spiritually is a must because we never know exactly what is coming and how evil may manifest itself. All you can do is stand on the promises and hope and pray for the absolution from God who is always on His spot through our Advocate.
Quietly, I await a second chance in my own life for a happy resolve. Unknowing if that is His will or not? Of course, I should know His opinions on most circumstances in life and I do. But, there are always meddlers who believe they know better than God. Some do not even believe in God but they have control issues of their own to deal with. Many give lip service to God and have a blanket judgments of how everything should be! Me, I do not hear so well, my opinion is let God be God, extend mercy if you can and let His grace do the rest. Being a selfish person myself I never felt God's grace to be sufficient for me. Deliberately I live in the hustle and bustle of cities and dwell where there are frequently masses of people, knowing many can hear much better than me!
Many will say there is not a compromise, no mercy, no forgiveness, a very stiff-necked crew. Does it matter who says the words? As long as they are said, can it mean that you are as committed as an agreement can allow in this day and age?
Having lived in God's mercy many years of my life such as it is...I have always found forgiveness and have forgiven others no matter what? You will find that others will try to remind you of what you have forgiven and will have an entire story about a matter that is not even the truth. Regardless deeply inside you will know what was true, and you know not to get drawn into a situation you know you cannot handle anymore. Sorry to inform you, we just age. Age to the point of accepting our limitations; knowing we cannot control other peoples lives, no matter what the general consensus's might be. That is where we should be. If we work on ourselves, there is no time to raise and stir mess that is usually not our place. Lies are just that politics are just the aforementioned. You cannot plan a life around that life. Too many changes all things are temporary and temporal.
An age old standby is to change what you know you can make better. With cooperation many situations can get so much better, you cannot change some else's opinion on matters they believe they are expert in. Regardless of all individual circumstances are just that individual stances. You however are not allowed to vent safely even to your own best friend, but they can vent and of course you will forgive and forget. Extended families are just that, family friends are just that. They are not to be in your immediate family business, should they run around and make sure everyone's history lines up with whom they believe you belong with or without. This part of life is between the immediately few and God. (Unless there is life threatening evidence of abuse, murder, disappearances. Share with only that potential victim and the potentially harmful person together! Honesty!) Not an entire gossip throw it all out there kind of way. If you can't hold water then step down, get out of the way. God will put someone there who can hold water.
Lastly, people do change drastically over time. God forgives all, should we all try? Honestly one out of three people have some issue diagnosed, just imagine how many others do not and are not labeled. It is just that simple, because you yourself are not completely normal. Some people are a recovering this or recovering that: some people never even think they are in need of recovering from anything. Life is perfect, one day at a time, by the way good luck with that. I know, one is a very lonely number, unless you have Him, but for some of us that is still unacceptable because people all know ourselves, and people yearn for those people seemingly that people can never have. After all there is free will. All people can change by will.
Sunday, September 23, 2012
Love Is In The Center Of All We Do!
Can we all put love in the true center of all we say and do? We really must root out all our hidden agendas for power, greed, and prestige; and quietly try to live within the ten commandments. Helping the least of our world. Unless you are the least then you must accept a hand up with grace and gratefulness!
We have also learned the harm that seeds of violence cause. That does imply that those who compete for power with family and friends are no better than those who live their lives by violence. True men and women must be alert and live and work towards survival, honestly!
If you need an advocate find one within community programs and church programs that resource what you need. Do not fall for the wickedness and just plain wrong ways of the world through theft, lying and deception to acquire what you need. You will never get enough if you resort to those tactics! You will fall by the wayside of those addicted, high on material things that won't last, because you are too slow from your addictions or have ruinous friends who will destroy what you do have as they have no vested interest in you, your family, neither your things! Stay alone if you need to to protect your own way of life.
You cannot save anyone until you save yourself! Become what you intended to be, only then will you be content in this world and in these times. If a man or woman cannot live on his or her own for a year, how do you expect them to live with another, even you?
I was traveling through South Carolina and stopped in to a lovely church and gleaned much of this information. But I want to share the reading with you all because I found it very prolific for what I had been observed in many many families. The competition being so fierce and the infighting so sad that it broke my heart. Literally, I cried.
The Reading: In Quotes
"The wicked say:
Let us beset the just one, because he is obnoxious to us;
he sets himself against our doings,
reproaches us for transgressions of the law
and charges us with violations of our training.
Let us see whether his words be true;
let us find out what happened to him.
For if the just one be the son of God, God will defend him
and deliver him from the hand of his foes.
With revilement and torture let us put the just one to the test
that we may have proof of his gentleness
and try his patience.
Let us condemn him to a shameful death;
for according to his own words, God will take care of him.
Srr The Reading above is a direct Quote from the Book of Wisdom 2:12, 17-20 (Catholic Bible)
The Second Reading is, As follows; also in quotes: James 3:16 through 4:3.
( What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don't they come from evil desires at war within you?)(NLT)
"Beloved: Where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every foul practice. But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, the peaceable, gentle, compliant, full of mercy and good fruits, without inconstancy or insincerity. And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace for those who cultivate peace."
Where do the wars and where do the conflicts among you come from? Is it not from your passions that make war within your members? You covet but do not possess. You kill and envy but you cannot obtain; you fight and wage war. You do not possess because you do not ask. (God for yourself for your own) You ask but do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions. NLT
We all want everyone to have what they want, honestly and earned. Physically and emotionally. You cannot abuse your body neither others to get what you want. It will not last and neither will you. If you do right right will follow you. If you remove all the God and bible, life will still read out and live out the same way. My preference is Him, but yours may be a higher power or not. It is what it is. Live it or lose it. Sometimes lonely, but always trying to do right. Everything is not as it appears. Just Do Right By yourself and those around you. Is it good for all?
I love you all and just want you to be happy and safe out there. I pray wisdom and provision for you all!
Do all things out of love!
Thank you Miss Sharon Rose and the Seasonal Missalette 2012
We have also learned the harm that seeds of violence cause. That does imply that those who compete for power with family and friends are no better than those who live their lives by violence. True men and women must be alert and live and work towards survival, honestly!
If you need an advocate find one within community programs and church programs that resource what you need. Do not fall for the wickedness and just plain wrong ways of the world through theft, lying and deception to acquire what you need. You will never get enough if you resort to those tactics! You will fall by the wayside of those addicted, high on material things that won't last, because you are too slow from your addictions or have ruinous friends who will destroy what you do have as they have no vested interest in you, your family, neither your things! Stay alone if you need to to protect your own way of life.
You cannot save anyone until you save yourself! Become what you intended to be, only then will you be content in this world and in these times. If a man or woman cannot live on his or her own for a year, how do you expect them to live with another, even you?
I was traveling through South Carolina and stopped in to a lovely church and gleaned much of this information. But I want to share the reading with you all because I found it very prolific for what I had been observed in many many families. The competition being so fierce and the infighting so sad that it broke my heart. Literally, I cried.
The Reading: In Quotes
"The wicked say:
Let us beset the just one, because he is obnoxious to us;
he sets himself against our doings,
reproaches us for transgressions of the law
and charges us with violations of our training.
Let us see whether his words be true;
let us find out what happened to him.
For if the just one be the son of God, God will defend him
and deliver him from the hand of his foes.
With revilement and torture let us put the just one to the test
that we may have proof of his gentleness
and try his patience.
Let us condemn him to a shameful death;
for according to his own words, God will take care of him.
Srr The Reading above is a direct Quote from the Book of Wisdom 2:12, 17-20 (Catholic Bible)
The Second Reading is, As follows; also in quotes: James 3:16 through 4:3.
( What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don't they come from evil desires at war within you?)(NLT)
"Beloved: Where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every foul practice. But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, the peaceable, gentle, compliant, full of mercy and good fruits, without inconstancy or insincerity. And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace for those who cultivate peace."
Where do the wars and where do the conflicts among you come from? Is it not from your passions that make war within your members? You covet but do not possess. You kill and envy but you cannot obtain; you fight and wage war. You do not possess because you do not ask. (God for yourself for your own) You ask but do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions. NLT
We all want everyone to have what they want, honestly and earned. Physically and emotionally. You cannot abuse your body neither others to get what you want. It will not last and neither will you. If you do right right will follow you. If you remove all the God and bible, life will still read out and live out the same way. My preference is Him, but yours may be a higher power or not. It is what it is. Live it or lose it. Sometimes lonely, but always trying to do right. Everything is not as it appears. Just Do Right By yourself and those around you. Is it good for all?
I love you all and just want you to be happy and safe out there. I pray wisdom and provision for you all!
Do all things out of love!
Thank you Miss Sharon Rose and the Seasonal Missalette 2012
Labels: children, families, infighting, Love, motives
Monday, September 15, 2008
What kind of a seed are you sowing?
Love each other…that was the 2nd most important command Jesus Christ Himself gave to believers. Guess what #1 was? Love Him, first.
If you are in the defense mode then you are not ready to restore your marriage. Enjoy your misery….
If you have been at it for awhile and you have been to Venus and Mars and thrown a lot of money at counselors and taken too much of your Pastors time away from the sick and dying. Open your ears and have ears to hear and your hearts to love. Stop the old stinking thinking and release real power into your life. The supernatural good old fashioned Holy Spirit into your every move. He works. Yes He, God the Father He, Jesus Christ He, and The Holy Spirit He. Don’t get puffed up guys the first person to tell of His return was a woman. Personally I feel that here on the planet everyone spends too much time on gender and not enough time on what is said.
‘1 Peter 3v.1 Wives, in the same way are submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.’ i.e. (reverence = respectful behavior)
Now, I know “it is written”. Many scholars have done many translations and if you want to get into that go somewhere else. You are still not miserable enough and you have been too scholarly for love. If both will take all scripture to heart, and pray for God to show you the path to restoration and pray for Him to change your heart and change you in the name Jesus Christ asking the Holy Spirit to reveal to you what you need to change, do, say, and repent for and or handle a situation differently He will. And it will be in love, not in an ‘I’ need to control everything. (Remember we cannot take God’s job. You are repenting to Him, as having broken His love promise.) And many times we try with our mouth. Oh, that’s the little sword that got us here in the first place. (TONGUE). For those of you, who say you are His friend remember the sword as part of the armor, (tongue) praying to put on your spiritual armor. Is there a hole in your armor? Are you putting on the whole garment? Or are you …..?
‘Proverbs 14 - v.1 EVERY WISE woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands.’
Literally, with our own mouth and actions, the words you speak are very powerful. Listen and hear yourself: If gossip, complaining, murmuring about your marriage or someone else's is your norm, you are tearing down your own marriage. Regardless of your gender, Yes, men you may have assimilated this ugly curse as well. Using the term curse puts classification on the product of this type of speaking causes and deserves. What you say is how you may have to live tomorrow. That’s a fact. Believers know that every word that proceeds out of our mouth causes a reaction. Just as every action you take causes a reaction. (Physical science right...) Every word out of every mouth is a seed, speaking from your own heart and mind. Homework, take a day and listen to people’s words (seeds). Including your own negatives and positives, if you don’t hear any positives especially from your own mouth don’t panic, repent. Repent means saying your sorry and changing your direction. Stop, heard ‘it’, say you’re sorry and try not to repeat what you have just cleared up. (For that is part of your righteousness, not being separated from God.) Have you heard ‘turn or burn’? If you put something negative out there then it will come back and burn you, bite you and mess up your moment. Adaptation is necessary for you to stop the reactions; prayerfully you will get so good you may get it repented for in your brain before it comes out of your mouth. Therefore, stopping destruction on yourself and others depending on the way you said whatever you said very well can cause your demise and misfortune. (Even misfortune is an important loss get it missed fortune.) Truth or not we don’t succeed every single time, eventually you will stop. It is a conscious choice not to open your mouth. ‘1 Peter 3:7v.7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.’ Love each other. It is the most important information anyone can ever share with another person. Regardless of the kind of relationship you are having. Husband – wife, Parent – child, brothers – sisters, for the others friend – friend. If you are not sure what rule should you apply...? Both...all...everybody. Take the gender out of the picture. Everybody what is the most important part of this sentence, especially believers? Yes ‘...so that nothing will hinder your prayers.’ What I never saw this before, you mean something can block my prayers. Yes, believers know it is sin. Here is an aside, many times God will answer an unbelievers’ prayer trying to get our attention, and of course we can explain it away as nutritional and walking, etc. Not that we may have been among those who were praying for you although you never knew. But they knew exactly what was going on and may have prayed for your pathway to wellness and love for Him.
‘1 Peter 3:8,9v. 8 Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. 9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.’ Are you in harmony with others or are your blessings in God’s storeroom waiting for you to forgive someone, Ask God to change your heart and mind and get closer to Him. You may not treat others better than you would treat those in your own household and vice versa. Are you treating your pets better than you would your own family or fellow believers?‘Galatians 6:7 A man reaps what he sows.’ Remember God will correct those He loves and maybe you have said the words before, that you loved Him and felt nothing happened. In His eyes He felt that was a promise and God always keeps His promises. He expects us to keep ours the very best we can. If you sow seeds of discord and anything but harmony you will reap what you sow, if not here in your present life then you will be repaid the same way you judged. We will all be judged by Him someday. What kind of seeds are you planting? In life, in marriage, in your children, in others you come in contact? Celebrate each other. Honor each other. What perception have you sown seed in to try to be Him… give it to Him. Everything is His.
Verses from King James Bible, The Message, NASB, Amplified. This message is not a fencing site. If you would like to contribute stories of what has worked for you in the past. Praise reports that’s great. Critiques for writing, enhancement and style comments are appreciated.
If you are in the defense mode then you are not ready to restore your marriage. Enjoy your misery….
If you have been at it for awhile and you have been to Venus and Mars and thrown a lot of money at counselors and taken too much of your Pastors time away from the sick and dying. Open your ears and have ears to hear and your hearts to love. Stop the old stinking thinking and release real power into your life. The supernatural good old fashioned Holy Spirit into your every move. He works. Yes He, God the Father He, Jesus Christ He, and The Holy Spirit He. Don’t get puffed up guys the first person to tell of His return was a woman. Personally I feel that here on the planet everyone spends too much time on gender and not enough time on what is said.
‘1 Peter 3v.1 Wives, in the same way are submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.’ i.e. (reverence = respectful behavior)
Now, I know “it is written”. Many scholars have done many translations and if you want to get into that go somewhere else. You are still not miserable enough and you have been too scholarly for love. If both will take all scripture to heart, and pray for God to show you the path to restoration and pray for Him to change your heart and change you in the name Jesus Christ asking the Holy Spirit to reveal to you what you need to change, do, say, and repent for and or handle a situation differently He will. And it will be in love, not in an ‘I’ need to control everything. (Remember we cannot take God’s job. You are repenting to Him, as having broken His love promise.) And many times we try with our mouth. Oh, that’s the little sword that got us here in the first place. (TONGUE). For those of you, who say you are His friend remember the sword as part of the armor, (tongue) praying to put on your spiritual armor. Is there a hole in your armor? Are you putting on the whole garment? Or are you …..?
‘Proverbs 14 - v.1 EVERY WISE woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands.’
Literally, with our own mouth and actions, the words you speak are very powerful. Listen and hear yourself: If gossip, complaining, murmuring about your marriage or someone else's is your norm, you are tearing down your own marriage. Regardless of your gender, Yes, men you may have assimilated this ugly curse as well. Using the term curse puts classification on the product of this type of speaking causes and deserves. What you say is how you may have to live tomorrow. That’s a fact. Believers know that every word that proceeds out of our mouth causes a reaction. Just as every action you take causes a reaction. (Physical science right...) Every word out of every mouth is a seed, speaking from your own heart and mind. Homework, take a day and listen to people’s words (seeds). Including your own negatives and positives, if you don’t hear any positives especially from your own mouth don’t panic, repent. Repent means saying your sorry and changing your direction. Stop, heard ‘it’, say you’re sorry and try not to repeat what you have just cleared up. (For that is part of your righteousness, not being separated from God.) Have you heard ‘turn or burn’? If you put something negative out there then it will come back and burn you, bite you and mess up your moment. Adaptation is necessary for you to stop the reactions; prayerfully you will get so good you may get it repented for in your brain before it comes out of your mouth. Therefore, stopping destruction on yourself and others depending on the way you said whatever you said very well can cause your demise and misfortune. (Even misfortune is an important loss get it missed fortune.) Truth or not we don’t succeed every single time, eventually you will stop. It is a conscious choice not to open your mouth. ‘1 Peter 3:7v.7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.’ Love each other. It is the most important information anyone can ever share with another person. Regardless of the kind of relationship you are having. Husband – wife, Parent – child, brothers – sisters, for the others friend – friend. If you are not sure what rule should you apply...? Both...all...everybody. Take the gender out of the picture. Everybody what is the most important part of this sentence, especially believers? Yes ‘...so that nothing will hinder your prayers.’ What I never saw this before, you mean something can block my prayers. Yes, believers know it is sin. Here is an aside, many times God will answer an unbelievers’ prayer trying to get our attention, and of course we can explain it away as nutritional and walking, etc. Not that we may have been among those who were praying for you although you never knew. But they knew exactly what was going on and may have prayed for your pathway to wellness and love for Him.
‘1 Peter 3:8,9v. 8 Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. 9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.’ Are you in harmony with others or are your blessings in God’s storeroom waiting for you to forgive someone, Ask God to change your heart and mind and get closer to Him. You may not treat others better than you would treat those in your own household and vice versa. Are you treating your pets better than you would your own family or fellow believers?‘Galatians 6:7 A man reaps what he sows.’ Remember God will correct those He loves and maybe you have said the words before, that you loved Him and felt nothing happened. In His eyes He felt that was a promise and God always keeps His promises. He expects us to keep ours the very best we can. If you sow seeds of discord and anything but harmony you will reap what you sow, if not here in your present life then you will be repaid the same way you judged. We will all be judged by Him someday. What kind of seeds are you planting? In life, in marriage, in your children, in others you come in contact? Celebrate each other. Honor each other. What perception have you sown seed in to try to be Him… give it to Him. Everything is His.
Verses from King James Bible, The Message, NASB, Amplified. This message is not a fencing site. If you would like to contribute stories of what has worked for you in the past. Praise reports that’s great. Critiques for writing, enhancement and style comments are appreciated.
Labels: Love, marriage, science., Seed, supernatural things, unreal
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Love Is: Let's Start With This!
Friendships, Marriages and Children.
The Right Kind Of Love means having the best God has for YOU! Don't stop reading because you saw the Word God. I am not talking about religion. I am talking about the supernatural! There is a love that has no boundaries! Try It! Your way has obviously not worked yet! If you are not going to be a believer maybe your partner is and you may be able to meet some of your partners expectations. Most of the time people just were never educated about proper way to love. Only what they have lived through life experiences and you see where that has you? Don't You see?
To love through Him and then to each other through Him brings His Anointing between you within the relationship of a marriage that will even amaze you and all those around you. The witness you have to each other will be altered, all around you people will want what you have. It is so supernatural and so Anointed that it is all in the Word of God.
Not the religious stuff. I mean the original language translations, Hebrew, Greek, Aramaic look up the truth. Study for yourself. God's gift for you was His Son and His Word. The Keys to love are in His Word, use those keys. Not just the laws. Seek the love between a man and a woman in His Word it can save all marriages! It can save all relationships. Love is really equal in marriage. Oh, yes even in the Bible.
Here is God's Plan
- Make a resolution to compromise!
- Apply non-threatening behavior at all times, so that both partners feel safe and comfortable, children included. ( Elevating your voices is only for emergencies. Life or Death situations. )
- Never raise your voice to a threatening tone. That's abuse.
- Mutual respect is non-judgement with emotional understanding and consideration.
- Support the goals of both partners in life together.
- Separate friendships and own activities are O.K. But pencil them in.
- Honesty and accountability for past and for the new future you works towards.
- Sharing and responsible parenting are a must in and from the Bible, that is not the wrath you want to fall on you from the Lord. (For every action there is a reaction)
- Mutual and shared work responsibility especially since everyone is usually working and or going to school. (An yes school is work. So are indoor jobs.)
- You must make money decisions together and get rid of all the credit living you can as fast as you can. Both have to benefit. You cannot live on partners income exclusively unless it is a mutual agreement. Separate accounts may be the answer and mutual accounts may be another answer or both to pay the bills. ( Personally the best marriages are usually where it is all in one pot. But if one partner has a problem with handling money then a separate bill paying account may be needed.)
- Each marriage has it's unique chemistry and falls under a special plan from God and if you can get into those Blessings from God you will probably be a millionaire at least once in your lifetime.
- You can move into all the Blessings if everything you live is under His covering, not just the laws that are convenient.
- Do your very best to provide some kind of health plan for your families, even if one person has to work for a corporation or larger company until you make life stable.
- Your children can then claim their inheritances. Not the curses. (i.e. poverty, abuse, etc.)
- Always remember what is happening in the lives of the children.
- You can always change. We are all changing everyday. Day by Day is how you live.
- Put something away for when you do get over 60 and plan on life's ups and downs.
- The both of you can have it all.
This is the nastiness that marriage and relationships are not?
Seek restoration or freedom if you are afraid of your partner. Can you express your opinions or feelings without fearing your partner's reaction or belittling? You should never have to ask to see your family or friends or to spend money for what is needed like food. You do have to confer with schedules to have time together. You should never have to make your environment and yourself into what a partner wants in order to avoid pain or belittling, emotional or physical. You should not be trying to please someone over and over only to be criticized for not doing or not doing it right. You should never feel like you are living with two different people, the one you know and the one everyone else knows! A light side and a dark side? You should always have communication so that you never feel confused about the way you perceive your relationship and the way your partner perceives your relationship. Do you believe all the terrible things your partner says about you, or accuses you, you shouldn't be dealing with behavior like that? These are the warning signs of abuse and the abuse will only get worse if you both don't seek help.
YOU ARE BEING ABUSED GET HELP! None of the above situations are irreparable and many can be helped if they haven't been carried too far! You may be the victim. You may be the abuser and don't know any better. Get Help. If you can't afford to write me and vent. But churches are frequently free counselors and keep searching until you find on that agrees with these views of what abuse is and is not. These are International views and simple Human Rights for people of all ages.
If you or your partner engage in slapping, punching,biting, pinching, and or the target of flying objects, called demeaning names, shaken,beaten, pushed, kicked, and denied proper medical treatments, i.e.immunizations, food, clothing, or your shelter, pressured or forced into sex acts. You need intervention and help to regain your respect and love for each other. Nothing less than love, That is what the Word says and those are International human rights. Now wake up and serve each other! Not the darkness. Look into your partners eyes and there you should find the light of Jesus, the light of love and the brightness of YOUR Partners eyes is a direct reflection on YOU! Surely it may have started as joking, but now it is an out of control situation. You must empower yourselves to change! Change is from within your own heart.
Do you or your loved one break your memento's or valuable or personal property? Accused of always flirting or having affairs and blaming your partner, unjustly? And I mean come on some are really having affairs and blaming your spouse? GET REAL! Serve each other. Are you allowed to work or get hounded at work by a spouse until you lose your job or focus and lose your employment? Live isolated from family and friends? Do you deny each other affection as punishment? Are you unable to show affection due to the way you have been treated? Left to walk dangerous areas at night? Punished by watching your children be abused? Get Help! Manipulated with constant lying and contradictions? Get Help! Talk to someone! Don't keep this kind of life a secret. There is help and it is free and you may get free. Free to treat and serve each other with real love and real respect.
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